What If Video Calls Are Interrupting My Parenting Time?

Sharing custody can come with challenges, and one issue parents may face is how and when video calls should take place. While technology helps keep kids connected with both parents, excessive or poorly timed video calls can disrupt parenting time, create tension, and lead to disputes.

Whether you’re in the early stages of co-parenting or facing new difficulties years after your divorce, talk to a West Palm Beach family attorney about how to handle communication conflicts. Doing so is a key step to fostering a productive relationship with your ex and protecting your relationship with your child.

Setting Clear Communication Guidelines

One of the best ways to avoid disputes over video calls is to address communication expectations in your parenting plan from the start. A well-crafted plan can specify:

• When and how often video calls will occur. Setting limits (such as once per evening or only on certain days) can prevent excessive interruptions.
• Acceptable call durations. Long, drawn-out calls can interfere with bedtime, homework, or quality bonding time.
• Who initiates the calls. Deciding in advance whether the child or parent will initiate contact can prevent confusion.
• Emergency or special circumstances. Guidelines can clarify when additional calls are appropriate, such as during vacations or special events.

By agreeing on these details early, co-parents can avoid misunderstandings and ensure both parents have quality connection with their child.

Of course, there are many who are having issues and do not have a parenting plan that addresses the problem. If your parenting plan didn’t address video calls, there are still ways to find a resolution. To start, respectfully express your concerns and propose a reasonable solution. For example, if video calls are happening too frequently or at disruptive times, suggest scheduling them at a more convenient hour.

If direct discussions don’t lead to a resolution, mediation can be an effective way to work out a compromise. A neutral third party can help both parents find a fair balance between communication and uninterrupted parenting time. Part of this process could include working through a modification to your parenting agreement.

As a last resort, court intervention is an option. When one parent is excessively interfering with parenting time or violating court orders, legal action may be necessary. Then, a lawyer can present evidence to the court and request modifications that better support a healthy co-parenting arrangement.

Balancing Connection and Boundaries

Technology makes it easier than ever for children to stay connected with both parents, but it’s important to find a balance. Setting clear expectations and respecting each parent’s time helps create a more stable and positive environment for your child.

But as is true with an array of technological advancements, an adjustment period could be necessary. If you’re struggling with video call interruptions or other co-parenting issues, a West Palm Beach family attorney can guide you toward a resolution.

Have video calls been complicating your life? Contact the legal team at Bruce S. Rosenwater & Associates to discuss how attorneys can help protect your rights and ensure the best possible outcome for your family. Schedule your confidential consultation today.